Hi everyone!
As Adrian mentioned a few posts back, my name is Kay and I wear diapers 24/7. I will be posting as a guest on Adrianne’s blog on occasion and want to use this first opportunity to delve into why I wear diapers 24/7 and my experiences and transition into diapers.
I have, and have always had a relatively small bladder and an overactive bladder at that. Leaks and discomfort were a part of my every day life, and I accepted that as normal. That was, until, about a year ago, I was introduced to the option of wearing adult diapers as a solution to my bladder problems. I was a bit nervous at first and wasn’t sure if wearing diapers was for me. But I was also curious and tired of the minor bladder mishaps discomfort that were becoming a part of my every day life. I began wearing diapers at home and on my commute to and from work. Slowly I began to build confidence in diapers and began to wear them at work as well. It was amazing! I no longer had to worry about how much and what I was drinking during the day for fear that I would spend most of my day needing to or going to the bathroom.
I began wearing diapers 24/7 about four months ago with the intent of allowing myself to relax and to have decreasing amounts of control over my bladder. Essentially I am working toward incontinence with the hope that it will make larger wettings less frequent and allow for me to pass liquids through my body without the discomfort of pressure in my bladder. Because I pretty much always had to go to the bathroom before my introduction to diapers, regardless of amount of fluids consumed, the challenge for me is more mental than physical, teaching myself to relax and not hold on to anything – not to be afraid to wet my diaper in any public or private setting. I have made some great progress over the past few months and am having a lot of fun experimenting with diferent diapers, learning what materials, absorbancies and styles I like. I feel healthier and happier than ever and feel that I owe those feelings, not only to diapers, but to the person in my life that introduced me to wearing them. I heart diapers!
I hope that everyone had a great holiday season and a very happy new year.
Kay.
hey kay,
thanks for sharing your experiences with diapers and i am glad they are helping you live a much more enjoyable life! i don’t wear 24/7 myself but have thought about it. my biggest problem is the same as you….dealing with the mental part of relaxing my bladder. still having some trouble with that but it’s a slow process. having to undo all the potty training is hard!
anyway, i wish you much luck and hope everything works out for you!
have a great weekend 🙂
–johnny
Thank you for telling us about yourself.
I do have a question (or two) – what brand have you settled on for day-to-day wear and why?
I am glad that you’ve found a way to manage the problems in a way that works very well for you. 🙂 Too many people I know hate the thought of diapers, but I find them to be much better than some of the alternatives (like running to the bathroom all the time or wearing a tiny pad that (for me) tends to shift.
Hey! It’s great to see another 24/7 wearer posting. I’ve been wearing 24/7 since April 2008 and it has been absolutely great so far. It took a few months to get into… but it has really made a difference in my life as far as toileting habits go. Please share more of your wonderful experiences with us! Sometimes diapers are just the logical choice.
I hope your inclination also fulfills its full mission and leads to the full and proper use of diapers, which icludes all bodily functions and not just peeing in them. I don’t see the point of wanting to use diapers unlesds you use them fully. Believe me, I went through the same passage and you need to let yourself go – no pun intended – and experience the freedom FULLY by pooping as well as wetting your diapers!!
Welcome, Kay. hank you for deciding to share your experiences with all of us.
Welcome Kay. So what kind of Diapers do u like and what’s your favorite brand.
Hey its interesting that you say you have to watch you fluid intake. I have never really thought about it but I feel I do the same with my fluid intake. If I drink to much I know all im going to be doing is running to the bathroom most of the time during the day. I have always taken it as just part of my life and never given any thought to it. I know I have to go urgently sometimes. But yea Thanks Sean
I Think its great that you are so open about your feelings and are trusting enough to tell others about it. I say stick with it and good luck.
-luke 🙂
Hi
I think it so cool what you write.
I just have one question: How did you (Kay) meet Adrian?
Hey there Kay,
It’s good to hear that you’ve found such a sense of balance in your life. I’ve dealt with a lot of incontinence issues as well, and I know just where you are coming from. There’s such a feeling of confidence when you are wearing a diaper; you know you can relax and it will be okay.
Looking forward to hearing more from you in the future.
CDB
hi kay, i also have a small bladder. ive been bedwetting since i was young so i really only need to wear a diaper to bed. i dont wear during the day since i can always find a toilet. for those of us who do have a bladder problem we should talk about it.
ok so i like wearing diapers but its wierd though 2 me cause feel all babyish but the feel is amazing it started when i was looking through the closet that holds the shoes an i saw a adult diaper so i brought it up stairs just 2 feel it i tried it on and wet it cause i drank alot and i had 2 go and it was convinient and then i had 2 sneak it out of my house 2 the trash but i found more the nxt day and im on the last one right now and and im scared 2 go 2 the store 2 buy more
Cosmo, you can buy them over the intenet usually with discrete packaging available. If you can’t get them delivered to home, how about a PO Box address?
Samantha, I have to agree with you on the total commitment part. Although I don’t mind having a mess in my diapers, I hate having to change them. I wear Molicares during the day and wont change till I get home. IF I end up with a mess in them I just keep it in there till I get home. I can go several hours with it in there and not develop a rash. Changing is such a lousy experience, that I often procrastinate and just stay in it. ONce it is sat upon, I really don’t notice it at all.
Susan,
I know how you feel to some degree although I mess my nappie through enjoyment rather than need, I do feel an anti climax after I have messed myself when I remember that I have to clean myself. I do look forward to next time though. Does anyone know why we haven’t heard from Kay?
hi susan.i take it when you say mess you mean no 2’s.Does the smell not make you feel akward when you are in public. i have only no 2 a couple of times when i’ve been at home and i tiught that if that was in a public place i wouldn’t know what to do.
ANDY.hi mate. i totally get you with the changing thing. i do’nt mind changing a wet nappie but hate a loaded one.that and the smell are the reasons a don’t really do it altho it does feel good when i have done.
cheers guys.
good changed diaper her
hey y dont you show your face and your whole self in the diaper im shure your cute and i love diapers i love wearing them and peeing in them do you
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I acquired a bladder infection while serving in Viet Nam, in1967. At the VA hospital, I wore disposables, which I found to be inadaquate for an extended period. A sweet nurse suggested incontinent pants and cotton diapers, which I have worn daily since then. Plus, itis much more economical!
Hello KAY…( if you are still here )
I read your story ( from Jan.10th,2009 ), and it´s exactly the story of my ex-wife.
She was a livelong bedwetter, and had a very small and weak bladder.
For over 25 years she was in the habit of running to the toilett every 30 minutes, but she wets her pants minimum 5 times a week.
For the nite she was in diapers and plastic pants, okay.
In the daytime she wore only plastic pants over thick panties and liners, but she had still a lot of visible accidents.
I met her in 1970, but we were only friends with dif. partners.
But in 1978 we fell in LOVE…
She knew I was a bedwetter too, and so things were easier for us.
After 2 month I put her in diapers for 24/7, and after 3 month she was real incontinent, and much more balanced !
No more stress with continual looking for a loo, or the fear of detection in wet pants.
Her (our)life changed total, but it was a lot easier since that day !
AND…we had a lot of fun together in diapers, and we had a very pleased life.
I hope more incontinent people will go this way, its a lot easier than a life in invidiously diapers.
Many regrads from germany, and please excuse my poor english…SAM
I’m glad diapers turned out to be a wonderful solution to your problem. I started wearing them cause I used to have to pee really bad at night. Every single night I would walk to the bathroom and go back to bed not being able to go back to sleep. I bought a pack of depends (Yes I know, they’re not the BEST, but they do the job.) and wore a pair to bed one night. When the time came to go and pee I used the diaper and went back to sleep. Now I get a full sleep every night. I also sometimes wear then during the day just for convenience and comfort, it’s like pillows for underwear.
I use diapers 24/7. I am not incontinent but I have a chronic back condition that has deteriorated very much and i lie down most of the time. I have a recumbent lying orthosis that is custom made en envelopes the back of my legs, body and head to give me good support. Getting up would give me excrutiationg pain and diapers were the only solution. It was a big mental step to take (certainly because i can’t change the diaper myself lying down – a nurse comes in the morning for an hour, at noon a voluntary carer visits – most of the time alternately my mother-in-law or sister-in-law 🙁 and after 5 pm my wife has returned from work) It was difficult to relax and counter the natural reflex not to void. I also hated to poop in it and tried to avoid it. Result: urinary tract infection and constipation. My carers from then on had to fill in a diaper changing chart that is followed up by the morning nurse. They still do and i find it rather humiliating (certainly if it’s the in-laws or my wife), but the doctor finds it a useful routine. They have to mention time of diaper change, if they observed urine voiding and/or a fecal deposit and a rough appreciation of the amount. I have been using diapers for a year now and i have learned to use them as a tool. Urine voiding has become less of a problem after the first months and i try to void regularly to avoid large wettings. I use a heavy diaper with urine indicator that can absord several voidings. I did have to turn the mental key regarding pooping but i still hate the feeling of a messy diaper and a try if possible to do my fecal deposits about 10 minutes before carers arrival or at evening, but it isn’t always possible. I still don’t like diaper changings by carers but it has now become only an unpleasant routine. (after a year i have had about 1752 changes so i guess i am getting used to it)
I wear diapers everyday myself due to having IBS-C and they are sexually stimulating to me! 🙂 I also have a strong diaper fetish! 🙂 Am I weird to you? I don’t care! 🙂
was on vaction in myrtle beach and was in diapers 24-7 met a girl on my hotel floor and cought me in my diapers and starting to change me in a dry diaper.
I have been a Diaper Lover since i was about 6 yo. I wouldent consider myself an adult baby by any means but I love the lifestyle i have chosen for myself. I have been crusing over this blog for about 5 days now and i must say that it is the most informitive AB/DL site i have come accross to date. Im very new to the AB/DL comunity and dont know very much about it haveing spent my entire life trying to hide it from every one. Iv only very recently told my girlfriend of over a year of my love for weraing diapers, and she has been very supporitive and has even assisted in buying them for me. I have to say thank you so so so much to the creator of this site, you have given me the the ability to go out and be comfortable whit who i am and what i chose to wear. thank you so much
Have had to wear diaper at night for years. Nice to have site like this to share. Wish I could find a Kay out there, would love to care and take care of. Took early retirement and going to do lot of traveling. Been single over 15 years, but had a nurse I lived with for few years who love doing the diaper thing. But had to leave due to family issues in her family. But really miss that. Diaper and frills and ruffles really turn me on, and want someone to spoil but lot of garbage out there affraid to be part of. Met a gal at halloween at Hilton outside of Reno few years back. but never been able to get in contact with. Have picture of us dressed as babies at costume contest, See her picture from time to time on other sites.Never know, maybe someday cross paths. Wish there was agood site for meeting same kind of likes. Would make relationships so much more fun if anbody knows of one. Seems to be alot of us out there, men and women. If not maybe somebody should start one.
Love the feeling of diapers, but gets frustraiting alone doing it. Seems to be lot more couple in UK doing it. Met two, but one doesn’t stay in contact, and the other got me for thousands of dollars. Learn as we get older. But want to find someone to trust and be trusted. Oh well , wa wa wa. I know!
Hi this would be my first post to this site. I am happy to see that there is more people out there that care about people that either have medical need to wear diapers and for those with fetishes. I was young when I had a had a fetish for wearing diapers, but with in the last 6 years I have had a lot of medical issues rear its ugly head at me and I have a lot of people that I think don’t believe me when I tell them. I started to have to wear 24/7 with in the last year due to my medical conditions. I was diagnosed with over active bladder, which they have me on meds for but sadly they have only taken care of 85% to 95% of the issue. I also am probable not going to ask the doctor to up my dose any higher due to the fact that my bladder is stretched out and I am worried that the meds will make that issue get worse than it already is, and if you are wondering I was told by my doctor that normal people only have a capacity of 16oz in a normal bladder and that my bladder is holding 32oz. I was also diagnose not to long a go with diabetic neropathy and irretable bowl syndrome and I think it has a lot to do with my incontinence issue. well I would like to say that i am glad to have found this site and the information has been very helpful for me. I do have one question for Kay, in the start of the last paragraph you mention that you were working on just letting go of trying to control the issue will that actually lessen the discomfort of the contractions if so would you let me know?
Hi there. I actually dont have any medical problems regarding diapers, but i use them in a more practical than sexual way. For example i am self employed and have my garden centre right next to my house. This makes it rather easy to go to the toilet, but if i have customers, i do prefer to wear my diaper, because i can pee at anh time, and poo if it is urgent. This is because i do not like to leave my customers. Also when i read in bed at night, it is practical so i dont have to get up in the most exciting part of my book.(or your blog :))
I also just like the feeling of peeing in them. Its so sort of…nice! I know, and im going to do it now. …. ah! Done. I would prefer not to wear them 24/7 though, as i like to wear them more on one- off occasions. This is mostly because i dont want to untrain my bladder, as i just could just not live with that.
I love diapers!