Well in response to a comment that was sent to me I’d like to address a few things and I hope that my readers are still here! I will try and address some of these comments and let you know what they were since I have deleted the comment not finding it completely appropriate.
I have been informed that I am not descriptive enough, and in fact boring some on this site because I do not talk in great great detail about my messing in a diaper and how big it is and the such. Here is the thing, reality is that everyone does not mess all over their diaper every day. On that note I have no problem talking about my messing and my experiences and I’m sorry if they are not as in great of detail as some of you would like. I will try and do a better job but you also must realize that we are very normal every day people our lives are not that exciting and not much different than everyone elses. We simply love diapers and everything about them and enjoy sharing our experiences with each of you out there.
On a VERY quick note but just to get it out there, I will NOT talk about Peter and I’s sex life. Regardless of your opinions, to me this is very personal and I won’t discuss that.
I really do want to make my readers happy and I love to share just about everything! Please, don’t be rude though or disrespectful. I do apologize if I have been getting boring or the such but I just want people to remember that we do live normal lives, we simply love diapers on top of that and love sharing!
If you have any comments that you feel may not be appropriate to post you may email me. Again, please be respectful. there is link at the top of the page that says “contact me” if you would like to contact me directly.
Anyways 🙂 now that that is out of the way…I’d like to say that today has been good for the most part. just took a late lunch and came home to find Peter here as well 🙂 I was so happy because I had a very wet diaper so he was able to change me quickly and fix me a sandwich! I love the smell of powder coming from my diaper after a change! It makes me smell so fresh and clean 😀 love it! haha
Well back to work for me! Toodaloo 🙂.
Wow ….. just wow. I find nothing about your posts boring. The fact that you share your life experiences is the reason I come here to learn what is in store for myself. Kinda like peering through the looking glass at a possible future. I find it amazing that folks are posting inappropriate requests and I hope that does not keep you from sharing with those of us that find this website great as it is. It is, after all, your website and you should feel free to share, or not share, what ever you want without prejudice! So thanks for sharing and staying cool.
I agree with Mr square! Whover wanted more info on poopy nappies is clearly looking for tittilation. So perhaps you could make clear in future post wether purpose of the blog is for titillation or to in form so people don’t get the wrong idea
Also there are two types of people he6re, those who develop a love of diapers because they medically need them And those who don’t need them butlike wearing anyway. I full into the second category. I Imagine it’d be easier to accept your love of diapers if you needed them anyway. Youd say, I’m stuck with em so may as well make the most of it.
Perhaps you could post about this too Stacey.
hey stacey, i want to tell u have a great sight here
You should be proud of your site and the information on it just as it is. Please don’t let some person or persons with their own selfish motives sway you from what you feel is best. If this site was so boring then none of us would be coming back to visit!
Keep up the great work!
Well said! Though you already know my stance when it comes to how much info should given out to people, as well as the blatent “I just need something to make me horny” post, I still must say you are right on the money for this post here. I by no means think your boring, and as small of a site as this is, it’s one of the top sites I “must” visit everyday. It’s been added to my RSS feed so I can keep track of daily updates. My main reason for enjoying this site, is that it “is what it is!” It’s a blog, a step into your daily lives. There aren’t many pictures here, and not hundreds of links. But it’s a site where I can come and see someone who like me..just loves diapers. Someone who is real…not faking it all up for the camera, not turning it into a small scale porn site. It’s just you guys, being who you are. It lets me feel like I actually know you guys, even though I don’t. It’s extra special to me, because of the simple fact here is a couple that loves each other, that has the same interest and is pretty much like my wife and I were not to many years ago. This gives me that connection that I enjoy. It’s not just some random site out there, with a bunch of pics of other people, or other crap. But it’s a place where I can have a say! Where I can feel more like a neighbor saying hello, instead of a lone voice in the middle of a huge city! Sure, I would like to see a few more pics of you guys together or so, or maybe around town just to get a taste of home again (Yes, I have family down in that area and I grew up in Alabama and Florida.) All in all, keep up the great work here you two! I love it, and look forward to more! I apprecaite the details you do give, without giving away to much info, or making me feel disgusted or something else.
I’m sorry to hear that there are those who are not happy with your postings. The truth is you can’t please everyone. The more popular your site gets, the more likely you are to run into someone who doesn’t like what you have to say.
I for one am very happy with what you write and look forward to postings. I would ask that you not try to reach or change your writings because of an angry or insensitive letter. One of the things I like about your postings so much is that it is very real. I see others write to please and to me it often comes off as fake and uninteresting.
This is your blog, I look at it as a journal or diary and that’s what I appreciate it as. If some guy wants visceral descriptions of messy diapers or details of one’s personal sex life, he can go pay for it on some other site.
Actually, most people don’t find your post boring at all.
However, I do have a few questions:
1.) You mentioned in a previous post that you were a child when you had to start wearing diapers again. How old were you?
2.) What kinds/brands of diapers did you wear over the years as you grew up?
3.) How did you cope with diapers in school? (elementary, high school, college, etc.)
4.) What medical treatments have you explored in an attempt to reduce/”cure” your incontinence?
Stacy– first off, I will tip my cap to you: A female ABDL who’s launched this great site. I’ve gladly paid the SMALL fee with every expectation that this site will grow and flourish.
Now then– your blog entries “boring”? Ha– “fuggetabouttit”. Let me speak frankly as a Guy. We’re generally clueless as to what What Women Want; when it’s narrowed down to the ABDL realm, it’s even moreso of a mystery to us. Just as in real life, ABDL men and women come into this scene with distinctly different perspectives and objectives.
I don’t want to stereotype… but let’s just agree that there’s a lot more “Horny New GUYS” than “Horny New GIRLS” 😉 No, not ALL guys are HNGs… but the disparity speaks to the male/female difference that exists here in the ABDL realm, just as it exists in the larger real world.
So, my point: Your blog is a brilliant, low-key illustration from a female’s POV of how you’re workng a Real ABDL relationship, in keeping with your own values and expectations.
Hey, a ABDL female’s real life isn’t a series of male-fantasy scenarios 🙂 It’s pretty much like any us guy’s– getting up, going to work, dealing with hassles, and working a real relationship in AND OUT of diapers.
Your blog is fantastic, Stacy– honest, straight-forward, and entirely fun and entertaining to read. I always enjoy reading posts from female ABDLs, to try and get a better understanding of that perspective– but your blog takes it further, beyond just a simple reply to some single topic. It’s a running narrative of your real life. And it works– it’s GREAT.
Summary: Keep it going Stacy! And best of luck with Peter– and IMABDL….
wv.