I am back everyone. And, I wanted to start my come back off with a topic that many people find fairly controversial or risky. Wearing diapers at the beach.
Wearing an adult diaper at the beach is probably one of the ultimate levels of acceptance. If you think to yourself that you are completely comfortable wearing diapers and don’t care too much what others think, then take the “diaper confidence test”…would you wear a diaper at the beach? I am not talking about at a deserted beach with nobody around. I am referring to a beach on coast of Florida with people around or some other beach where there are ACTUALLY people around. If you say “no”, then I ask what is holding you back in your mind?
Is it that you are scared?
Lack the confidence?
Do you worry about the “supposed” legal issues of it?
Whatever it is. Ask yourself what it is in your mind that holds you back? Whatever it is – that is probably the thing holding you back from completely accepting adult diapers as part of your life.
As a full time diaper girl that wears adult diapers 24 hours a day 7 days a week, I can tell you first hand its not completely straight forward or as easy as I make it seem. I have dealt with my group of those that are not all that accepting but in the end it really comes down to you and how you view yourself. In the end, there are no legal issues as long as you are not prancing around naked or completely disturbing others in public. I can personally say that I have seen more than a handful of times other adults/teens/young-adults wearing diapers on the beach in various ways. I have seen both men and women of all ages with diapers on the beach. Some wearing just a diaper and t-shirt, some wearing a diaper under board shorts with no shirt, and some with a pull-up underneath a bikini-type bathing suit. Obviously, when you see something like this – it stands out because its “different”. But, most people’s initial thought is not – “Oh my God there is some diaper freak” – it is usually more of just curiosity and most likely looking at it more from a medical perspective. ESPECIALLY, if you are not completely “acting a fool” on the beach.
Again, most people don’t care at all but again it is a confidence issue. That was always my problem for the longest time. It wasn’t that I was worried what others would think but more just confidence in myself. For several years when I was younger I was wearing a thick diaper under “girl boardshorts” and it was just not comfortable or “me”. I felt more out of place like that. Now, I typically wear a bikini top and diaper as my bottom. Sometimes, if I am feeling extra “surferish” I wear one of those tight surfer tops with a diaper.
Now, I am not always wearing just a diaper as a bottom because again its not about “flaunting a diaper”. I wear a wrap around my waist many times or towel. But, I typically sunbathe like any normal girl on the beach. RARELY, have I ever felt that uncomfortable or had anyone make a big deal.
If you are wanting legitimate tips on wearing diapers publicly on a beach then these would be my biggest tips:
- DO NOT flaunt your diaper and act a fool on the beach.
- Wear a cover up or at least bring one with you.
- Be confident and do not act like anything is “wrong”.
- Probably not the BEST idea to wear the “babiest” looking diaper out there like Safari Adult Diapers or adult diapers with big baby prints on them.
- Please don’t change yourself in front of everyone…please please don’t do this.
- Use common sense.
Again, wearing diapers in public can be exhilarating for many and freeing but again a big part of it comes from confidence and another part is just using good ol’ fashion common sense and not acting like a complete idiot on the beach or in public.
Glad you are back!! I Enjoy your blogging
welcome back,
I agree completely. I wear just a diaper and a shirt around my house…including outside on my porch or in my back yard. I have talked to neighbors in just a diaper and a shirt. If you don’t act a fool, some will start to stay away from you, others will just get over it in short time and all will be fine again. You just have to do it. Act like nothing is wrong and they won’t “react” to your lack of action. But you have to tell yourself it is ok first. Adrian is 100% correct here.
ive done it twice and it was awseome
If you are an exhibitionist, then I wouldn’t do it, but on the other hand if you use a little common sense, then do it. It’s what and who you are in that category.
Adrian, I’d love to do that, but I do have one major concern revolving around my prolific wetting. I wear ConfiDry 24/7s with a super absorbent Abena booster pad. Doesn’t take long before my diaper is very wet and swollen. So, I think I’d be nervous about showing my wet diaper butt in public. Maybe a stupid question since diapers are meant to be wet in, and folks will realize that and simply say ho hum. I wonder…
Id be interested to read if others have similar concerns.
I don’t wear just a diaper out because you have to respect other peoples feelings.Glad your back.
Glad to see your back Adrian and I couldn’t agree with this post more. It’s an exhilarating experience and usually no one can tell if I’m wearing a diaper under my shorts. I’ve had people give me looks before where they can see the waist band of my diaper peeking out above my shorts guessed they never thought they would ever see an incontinent guy on the beach.
I’ve done it before with the gf. And we just went to a secluded part, kept ourselves to ourselves and took a few photos. It was an amazing experience and something we are proud we did right and didn’t inflict our kink on anybody else.
It’s great to see people being confident and uninhabited, live and let live! The reasons behind ones wearing diapers isn’t important, it’s about being yourself and living free. I don’t think most people care either way what one wears and if they do it’s their issue, not yours. Most people get over it quickly so enjoy yourself. ⛵️
I’ve also done the same,with no issues.I do like the really thick adult baby nappies but I used a all white nappy and a t-shirt.nobody could have cared less.had some smiles from people and even a wink from some ladies.i might try a terry nappy and plastic pants this summer.but that’s a very babish look,so I’ll see how I go.
Hi, I live on the west coast of Florida and wear at the beach all the time.
I have had a couple of incidents when laying on the beach sunning myself in a diaper.
Both times, 1 person extremely overreacted, and it was so embarrassing that i made sure I was completely covered after.
It can take months or years to build up your confidence enough to lie down flat on the beach and remove your coverup, all to be destroyed in a matter of seconds by someone overreacting.
I have not shown more than a waistband in years☹